Books

Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence by Esther Perel

Sexual Intelligence: What We Really Want from Sex–and How to Get It by Marty Klein

Women’s Anatomy of ArousalSexual Healing: The Complete Guide to Overcoming Common Sexual Problems by Sheri Winston CNM. RN. BSN. LMT

Bonk: The Curious Coupling of Science and SexBonk: The Curious Coupling of Science and Sex by Mary Roach

Any book by John M. Gottman

Women’s Sexualities: Generations of Women Share Intimate Secrets of Sexual Self-Acceptance by Carol Rinkleib Ellison and Beverly Whipple

Sexual Healing: The Complete Guide to Overcoming Common Sexual Problems by Barbara Keesling Ph.D.

Gay Affirmative Therapy for the Straight Clinician: The Essential Guide by Joe Kort

Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships by Tristan Taormino

The Going Down Guide: Tongue Tips and Oral Sex Techniques for Men and Women by Emily Dubberley and Al Needham
Intimacy & Desire: Awaken the Passion in Your Relationship by David Schnarch
Passionate Marriage: Keeping Love and Intimacy Alive in Committed Relationships by David Schnarch
The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy
The Erotic Mind: Unlocking the Inner Sources of Sexual Passion and Fulfillment by Jack Morin
Quickies: The Handbook of Brief Sex Therapy by Shelley K. Green and Douglas G. Flemons
Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What It Means for Modern Relationships by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jetha

Does prostate massage beneficial and how to milk a man? Relevant male health knowledge :prostate problems.

Sexual Intelligence:
What We Really Want From Sex, and How to Get It

Yes, there is something new to say about sex. Here’s a robust perspective about how sex really is, exploring dozens of what will be “Aha!” moments for every reader, such as:

  • Although most people say that what they want from sex is a combination of pleasure and closeness, that’s not what they usually focus on during sex.
  • The similarities between male and female sexuality are far more important than the differences.
  • Sexual function is a means to an end, not an end in itself. Paradoxically, focusing on “function” often undermines sexual satisfaction.
  • Anyone who thinks that orgasm is the best part of sex is missing most of what sex offers.
  • Our desire to be sexually “normal” is precisely what prevents us from becoming our authentic sexual selves.

Most people develop their model of sexuality when they have the body of a young, healthy person—which nobody has very long. Thus, we all need a different model of sexuality if we want to desire and enjoy sex throughout our lives. This book provides that model—by enhancing your Sexual Intelligence.

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