The path to amazing sex is paved with...?
Let’s face it. Much of the information you and I learned about sex in our youth was biased, inaccurate or just plain wrong. As an adult, we are expected to combine that poor learning with the overwhelming amount of advice offered by your friends, your doctor, Oprah, and the internet...then we are expected to put all that stuff into action... and sometimes, well, more problems develop...you wonder what went wrong? Is it me, is it my partner(s)? Mostly it's just plain frustrating and embarrassing. - especially if it's a problem that you can't fix yourself and aren't eager to discuss.
It is my belief that most of us know how to do a lot of things right when we make love... but...we don't instinctively know how to be sensuous, intuitive, skilled and considerate lovers, we have to learn. I think that sexuality and intimacy are a lifelong learning experience. The elements of eroticism are complex forces that interact and change constantly. The biochemistry, neurology, hormones and physiology of our brains and bodies are forever evolvoing. So, our approach to sexuality also needs to change and evolve.
I propose that lasting eroticism requires attention and ongoing learning, effort and reinforcement. We have to continually discover and re-learn ways to achieve intimacy, to passionately connect - both physically and emotionally with another person. What seems easy...is, honesty, rather hard. Challenging.
I suggest that whether your love is new or seasoned by time, Sex Therapy and education give lasting hope for a path to real intimacy and amazing sex.
I propose that lasting eroticism requires attention and ongoing learning, effort and reinforcement. We have to continually discover and re-learn ways to achieve intimacy, to passionately connect - both physically and emotionally with another person. What seems easy...is, honesty, rather hard. Challenging.
I suggest that whether your love is new or seasoned by time, Sex Therapy and education give lasting hope for a path to real intimacy and amazing sex.
Two of the most common issues I help people with:
- The desire to rekindle or reignite passion in a long-term relationship
- The need to feel loved, safe, and accepted - unconditionally
With most of my clients, we start by talking about what drew you both together at the beginning, how you and your lives together have changed and how passion has evolved. What are your barriers to intimacy? Are you wiling to honestly share your feelings, thoughts, longings, fantasies and hopes — for yourself and your partner. These truths are the seeds of trust that can blossom into passion when uncovered and expressed, or wither passion when neglected or intentionally withheld.